Adult Autism Evaluations for High Masking Women in Virginia
At Onward Growth Psychiatry, we specialize in neuro-affirming autism evaluations for women and professional adults in Virginia who have spent years “masking” their traits. Many high-achieving women excel in careers, relationships, and responsibilities—yet quietly struggle with exhaustion, overwhelm, and the sense that something doesn’t quite fit.
If you’ve wondered whether autism could explain your experiences, you’re not alone. Our evaluations are designed for women who:
- Want a clear, professional diagnosis that finally makes sense.
- Mask symptoms so well that others don’t see their struggles.
- Feel burned out from constantly performing or “fitting in.”
- Experience sensory sensitivities that others dismiss.
- Have a long history of being misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression.
What is High Masking Autism?
If you’re a woman in Virginia who has always felt “different” beneath the mask, an autism evaluation can give you clarity, relief, and self-understanding. You deserve answers—and to be seen for who you truly are.
Many people on the spectrum learn to mask, meaning they learn to cover up symptoms that aren’t socially acceptable. A neuro affirming autism evaluation takes this into account – everyone presents a little differently! A lot of people that are high masking experience extreme fatigue or feeling drained after socializing, even if they appeared to be having fun and talking to people without issue. High masking people learn to stim in socially acceptable ways, like nail biting or hair twirling and have socially acceptable special interests, like animals. High masking people may refrain from sharing their special interest in real life, and prefer to focus on online communities, like Facebook and Tumblr. Many high masking people do well in school and develop relationships, though they may develop complex social scripts they follow to fit in better.
What to Expect from an Autism Evaluation
- Confidentiality & control: No insurance record unless you choose to share.
- Specialized expertise in adult women & masking—not every provider understands this unique presentation.
- Faster access: Avoid the long waitlists often found at large clinics.
- Comprehensive & affirming: We take time to understand your story, not just check boxes.
- Clear results & feedback—a written report you can use for self-understanding, accommodations, or workplace support.
Who We Serve
Our adult autism evaluations are designed for high masking women and adults in Virginia, including areas such as:
- Virginia Beach Metro Area
- Richmond Metro Area
- Northern Virginia (Arlington, Alexandria, Fairfax)
- Charlottesville, Harrisonburg, Shenandoah Valley
Neuro Affirming Re-evaluation
If you’ve had an experience that was wounding or non-affirming and would like to have a significantly better experience, we can help. You deserve a neuro affirming autism evaluation experience.
Adult Autism Evaluation*
*Tabitha offers a limited number of reduced fee appointments per month
$1200
Adult Evaluation + Post Eval Processing Appointment
$1400
Adult Autism + ADHD Evaluation
$1500
Adult Autism + ADHD Evaluation + Post Eval Processing Appointment
$1800
Contact Tabitha at Hello@onwardgrowthpsychiatry to schedule a reduced fee autism evaluation
Autism Evaluation FAQs
Everything you need to know about our evaluation process.
Do you also have to talk to my parents or other family members?
No, your evaluation is for you. We do not require collateral, though you are welcome to share it if you wish to. We believe your lived experience.
How long is the evaluation?
A typical evaluation is 2-3 hours. If you would like to be assessed for both Autism and ADHD, we will need the full 3 hours.
What do I get after my evaluation?
You will receive a written report within 24 hours of your evaluation. Your evaluation will explain if you meet the criteria for an autism diagnosis, the rationale behind the diagnosis, and recommendations for next steps or support needs.
Do I have to wait to find out if I am diagnosed?
We believe you deserve answers as soon as possible. You will find out during your appointment – no waiting required.
Who will conduct my evaluation?
Dr. Tabitha Hapeman is an expert in neurodivergence. Tabitha is a doctorate prepared nurse practitioner and conducts all autism evaluations at Onwards.
What is the connection between Neurodivergence and LGBTQ+ spectrum?
There are many people on the neurodivergent spectrum that also identify as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. We provide neuro affirming and LGBTQ+ affirming care. You are beautiful just the way you are. If you’d like to learn more about your sexuality or explore how you identify, you can schedule a therapy session or an intensive.
